They say a date can't go wrong with candlelight, flowers, a little wine and mood music, but let's face it, isn't that a little cliché. With a little creativity and imagination you can make every date an affair to remember! The perfect date is said to consist of three elements:
- An element of surprise! This not only tickles your lover's fancy but also adds an air of excitement to the date. The next time you invite him or her out, don't tell her where you are going. Imaginative lovers might even want to blindfold their partners until you reach the surprise destination - a picnic laid out for two in a park or a living room strewn with rose petals.
- Mutual Interest. Try to remember which interests brought you together in the first place. Check the past to see if you are dragging a disinterested boyfriend to museum or a bored girlfriend to baseball games. Are you both interested in art? Do you both love the same thing?
- Creativity. It is definitely time to appeal to your imagination if the two of you find yourself stuck in a rut. Maybe you are renting a movie every Friday night or eating at the same restaurant every Saturday Night. Think of ways to entertain your lover, such as day spa for a massage and or cook a great dinner together with wine tasting at home.
- Picnic - Pack different kind of cheeses, crackers, bread and wine and drive to your favorite park to relax in the sun and enjoy long conversations with each other.
- Golf - Even dates that are professional golfers find this mutation of this game to be silly, fun and exciting. The relaxed pace of the game encourages conversation and lots of laughing.
- Comedy Show. This is a great suggestion for a first date as you can tell a lot about a person by what material amuses him or her and what material seems corny or offensive.
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